While I see you there, and while you mention it, although I've probably never commented on the gender posts, I am interested. I have friends who are in all of the various categories that are all lumped together as "queer" (except actual post-op transexuals - at least, I don't know of nay post-ops - so if I know you and you're reading this, count it as very successful. :) ) so I like to read the various points of view and ideas.